BDSM can be a fun way to add an extra element of fun to your sex life. I’ve gone over the basics in another post already, so be sure to check it out if you’re interested but don’t know how to get started.
In this post, we’re going to look at leading sex furniture. Now, if you’re just starting, you don’t have to have all of this furniture.
As you advance along your path, though, you’ll undoubtedly want to enhance your play. This furniture is designed to enable deeper penetration and can add an element of excitement.
Because there’s such a broad range of it on the market, it’s tough to know where to start. That’s why I’ve done extensive research and created this list of my best sex furniture; I’ll also devote some time in this post to explain more about how to use these pieces.
Are you ready to get started? Then let’s go.
What Kinds of Sex Furniture Are There?
Chairs and Stools
If you’re in the market for these items, here’s what you can expect to find out there:
- Rimming seats: You’ll recognize this item because it looks like a toilet seat. Initially, it was used to make the butt more accessible; one partner will sit on the chair, and the other will lick their butt, use a butt plug—and anything else that might be within easy access.
- Queening stools: This is basically a rimming seat that has a layer of plush padding.
- Smoother boxes: This is a hybrid of a queening and rimming seat; the primary difference is that the area beneath the seat is enclosed.
- CBT (cock and ball torture) chairs: I think you have an idea of what this is. The person on the chair faces a plank that has a hole for their cock to fit through. Some also have holes for the face and can come with boards for the arms.
Tables are a multi-purpose tool and are integral in most dungeons. The table will come up to your waist and is long enough for you to lie down on; some may have padding to make it more comfortable. It will also usually have points where restraints can be attached.
Tables can be roughly divided into two categories:
- Massage: These are built for durability and are strong enough to allow for longer sessions of play.
- Inversion: This is a type of therapeutic treatment chair that allows you to relieve stress by inverting your body. Naturally, these can be a lot of fun in the bedroom as well.
You’ll want at least one or two benches because they can be used for various activities. For instance, you can tie your partner to them, kneeling on them, or bend someone over them. Here are the types:
- Spanking: This version is a relatively modern invention and was created to make spanking easier. The person being spanked has several choices in terms of the position that they assume.
- Kneeling: These are specifically to kneel on; the resulting position puts the butt in the ideal position to be spanked, licked, or penetrated.
- Exposure: These are designed to allow easier access to the genitals. The partner using the bench lies on their back, and their legs are tied down straight or bent open.
Swings, Slings, and Suspensions
- Sex swings and slings: These are more must-have items. The lucky person seats themselves on the swing and is in the perfect position for play. Some swings have restraints built into them as well.
- Suspension Frames: These are most often used in conjunction with rope bondage and can be attached to a swing. Alternatively, you can be tied directly to the frame. You decide—there are a lot of different designs to choose from.
- Hoist: This is essentially a pulley and winch system and can be operated manually or electrically; a mechanized model will cost more, but it can make play easier. You might also find hoists built into other BDSM devices.
Cages and Boxes
Part of the fun of bondage play is that you’re trapped. There’s nothing that you can do about it, so you have to surrender. This can be achieved using ropes or other restraints, or through the use of cages or boxes.
Cages can also be used as punishment tools and can force the person to bend over, and so on.
- Standing and Horizontal: A standing cage will fit most normal-sized people, while a horizontal cage is not as tall and may require the person to bend a bit. Commercially available units are usually made from steel, and you can opt for custom dimensions, too.
- Leather, Net, and Rubber: These are harder to find but can also be fun. They can enclose the body tightly so that the person inside is not able to move. These can be used either on the ground or suspended.
- The Gibbet Bondage Cage: The idea here is to enclose the human body firmly so that the body is immobile; these often resemble the “iron maiden” torture device used in the 18th century— in this case, though, the spikes inside are dulled first.
Other examples are:
- Grope boxes
- Sex wedges
- Sex couches
- Sex chaises
- Sex sofas
- Sex lounges
- Bondage racks
Top Picks for the Best Sex Furniture 2020
The whole idea behind bondage furniture is to enhance the sexual experience. Most furniture will make sure that the genitals and other erogenous zones are exposed.
Liberator Ramp & Wedge Combo
This set consists of two firm triangular-shaped pillows. The larger cushion measures 34 by 24 by 14 inches, and the smaller one measures 24 by 14 x 7 inches. You lay them on the long flat side, and the person being played with then kneels and bends themselves over the pillow. This position creates a 27-degree angle, which is perfect for achieving deep penetration and stimulating the g-spot. The smaller wedge is usually placed under the arms but can also be moved further up to increase the angle of the bend even more.
What I like about this is that it looks pretty harmless. If you’re not involved in BDSM, you’re not going to know what this is. You can use the smaller cushion by itself or in conjunction with the other; try different combinations and positions and see what you like. Then slide it out of the way – it will blend nicely with your ordinary furniture.
The cushions have been created from high-density foam. They have to be to support the weight of two bodies at a time. The responsive core is made from a material designed to maintain its shape and spring.
These cushions are going to be good for many different sessions, and the outer cover is a cushy, soft microfiber material. It feels good against the skin, but more importantly, it’s non-slip. There’s also a water-resistant lining so that liquids don’t make it through to the foam.
Liberator Black Label Esse with Cuff Kit
The Liberator was made explicitly for the BDSM enthusiast, and at 64 inches high, you can raise your sex life to a new level. The headrest can be used on either end—use it to raise the knees or to cushion your partner as they bend over.
It’s fully padded for extra comfort, contains a total of 24 connector points, and comes with a set of ankle, thigh, and wrist cuffs. You’ll also get a blindfold and tethers with this kit. If you’re just getting started, this is an excellent way to get a full introduction.
So, let’s see, the high-density foam provides a high level of comfort and support. The foam is protected by a waterproof liner. The outer surface is plush and feels great against the skin. What’s not to like?
The Liberator comes with a mini-scoop for when you want to flatten the surface more. This aspect can make it easier to accommodate increased motion during sex.
Cytherea G-Spot Sex Magic Cushion
Hitting that elusive g-spot is made simple with this cushion. The Magic Cushion is not that big, and so not as pricey as some of the other items on this list.
If you’d like an introduction to BDSM, or just to improve the depth of penetration, this is the right item for the job.
It can be used on the floor, bed, or whatever surface you like. It’s wedge-shaped, with the highest side reaching 10 inches, and weighs just 1.4 pounds when fully inflated. It’s also simple to use and can be washed easily, too.
When you’re done, just let the air out for a simple storage solution. It’s incredibly comfortable and designed to help you explore new sexual positions.
The Best Queening Chair
This chair has been made to handle some serious weight. It’s also extremely strong, so you can play as rough as you like. It makes your partner’s genitals more easily accessible and is comfy to sit on. The padding allows for extended play sessions without causing cramps.
The included pillow provides extra support and comfort for the person performing oral sex, and it can be used or detached as you like.
You can decide exactly how much plush comfort you need while you’re getting on with the job.
The padding on the outside is resistant to moisture to protect the inner core and make cleaning easier.
The Best Queening Chair
This bench features a rather innovative design. Thanks to the split-level supports for the user’s arms and legs, it’s incredibly comfortable to use. The cushioning provides an extra level of comfort for hours of play, and you’re positioned perfectly for vaginal, anal, or oral sex.
The headrest, armrests, and leg rests can be adjusted to the perfect height. This is a sturdy bench that’s been designed to last through many sessions.
What I like in particular is how easy it is to set up and how solid it feels when you’re pounding away.
Because of the dropped design of the leg support, the rump is in the perfect position.
Container Furniture Direct Divine
If you’re looking for a permanent feature, this is an impressive option. At first glance, it looks like a designer sofa, so you can leave it on display if you prefer. It’s useful during sex, but can also be used during yoga or to help you stretch to get ready for sex.
It measures out at 67 by 14 by 29 inches and is solidly designed—the frame is made from sturdy wood and so will stand up to a lot of punishment.
The couch is nicely padded for extra comfort, and it’s finished in faux leather to make it easy to clean and lend an elegant look.
This couch puts the user in the perfect position—and whether that means being bent over it or lying flat on your back is up to you.
This is another cushion, but this one has a secret. It’s narrow enough to straddle, and a hole’s been strategically placed if you’d like to insert your Hitachi Magic Wand. The angle of the cushion, plus this secret pouch, make this the perfect tool for a little bit of self-pleasure and a hands-free experience.
When you’re with a partner, it’s just as much fun. It allows much easier access from both bent and seated positions.
Wanda is made from high-density foam, which has a protective waterproof liner. The cover is plush, soft, easily removed, and can be washed with the regular laundry.
Liberator Obéir Spanking Bench
This is another toy that you’re going to love. It’s sturdily built and at the perfect height to spank a pert, round bottom. The angle at which the person is bent over allows for easy access and deep penetration.
Note, however, that the Obéir features built-in D-rings, so it’s not the most discreet piece of furniture on this list. The D-rings do open a range of possibilities for restraining your partner, however.
The cover is made from reinforced microfiber for additional comfort and a non-slip feel; this well-made cover is not going to stretch out or wear easily.
The Bonbon is another saddle-like design that incorporates a pouch for your wand vibrator. This makes the Bonbon even more versatile because it can be used with or without a partner. Use the wand and ride it until you’re writhing in pleasure, or let your partner ride you.
If you’re into deep penetration, you’ll love the angle that this cushion provides.
The Liberator Bonbon is made from high-density foam lined with a waterproof cover to keep it pristine. The outer cover is a soft, comfortable microfiber that is non-slip, and it comes off easily so that you can wash it.
The Best Slings and Swings
When I was a child, there was nothing quite like the feeling of being on a swing. As an adult, the swings I prefer may have changed a bit, but the thrill is definitely still there. Do yourself a favor and consider getting a sex swing—because you’ll be amazed at just how versatile it is.
Fetish Fantasy Spinning Swing
This model provides adequate support for the back and a set of leg restraints that allow you to experience weightless sex. It’s sturdily built with a torsion spring, making it extremely easy to use. The swivel clip lets you spin your playmate, or play pass-the-partner more easily.
Setting it up is simple enough; you’ll need to attach it to a beam or the doorway with a steel bolt that’s designed to take a lot of weight.
The back and butt support straps are wider than average and padded to add to your comfort. All you have to do is to lie back and let your partner have at it.
Strict Leather Sling and Stirrups
If you are into a little bit of sadism/masochism play, this set will appeal to you. The head and neck cradles allow the head to be supported in comfort, but it’s the thigh cuffs that make this special.
Attach these handy cuffs and then secure them with the strap to put your partner in the perfect position for deep penetration.
The cuffs are fully adjustable, allowing you to experiment with a range of different positions and actions.
Keep your partner tied up while you have your fun—they might be able to squirm in tortured delight—but not much else.
STRICT Extreme Sling and Swing Stand
If you’re living in a rented home, you don’t want to go drilling a bolt into a beam or wall. The STRICT Extreme Sling and Swing is a good alternative. This swing comes with its own stand—it’s easy to set up and provides ample support and mobility.
What I really like about this set is that the back is solid, meaning that extended play sessions don’t result in cut-off circulation or uncomfortable straps digging into you.
This duo is also simple enough to take on the go with you if you can’t stand the thought of traveling without it.
The sling itself is leather-lined for additional comfort and even has a pillow. It’s designed to give you easy access to your partner’s genital area.
Adam & Eve Naughty Couples Door Swing
This is a good option if you’re operating on a tighter budget—but the design does take a little getting used to because it’s literally just made up of straps. There’s a support strap for the butt, handholds, and stirrups. In short, it provides everything you need to see and access almost every inch of your partner’s body.
The setup here is also the simplest on my list. You simply drape the anchors over your bedroom door; when the door is shut, the swing is firmly anchored and ready to use. The big advantage of the straps is that they are simple to adjust to different positions.
Fetish Fantasy Bondage Swing
Do you like a little more kink? Then the Fetish Fantasy is a great option. It features a tension spring and robust straps—and believe me, you’ll have endless fun swinging back and forth or round and round.
That extra bit of kink comes from the numerous ways in which you can restrain your partner.
The Fetish will support up to 350 pounds of weight, and it uses nylon straps to provide support and extra restraints. This makes it easy to customize for your partner’s height, size, and weight. It’s the rings that have been incorporated that allow for such a wide range of restraints—choose to clip wrist and ankle restraints in whatever positions you like.
Trinity 360 Degree Spinning Sex Swing
This option is another that allows complete freedom of motion. It’s even stronger than the previous version and will support up to 400 pounds of weight. If you’re a little larger size-wise, this is the better bet. The swivel clip allows you to spin your partner through a full 360 degrees.
The straps are adjustable so that you can customize the configuration to fit exactly. Your partner is supported by padded straps on the feet, butt, thighs, and back, allowing for a much longer, more comfortable play session.
The Best Bondage Beds and Bedding
For those who enjoy the thrill of BDSM, there are very few locations where sex is off the menu. That said, the bedroom is definitely a prime location. It makes sense to enhance the action more by using the right bed and bedding.
A bed designed for bondage will have several points at which you can attach restraints, and thus really enhance the experience. When evaluating your options here, it’s essential to focus on quality—because you don’t want the attachments breaking off easily and at an inopportune moment.
Any of the options below are good investments to make because they’re proven, quality items.
Under the Bed Restraint System
If you don’t quite have the budget for a new bed, this system is an easy way to transform your current bed. It’s also a pretty mobile option so you can take it along with you when out and about. All you have to do is to slide the straps under your mattress. They’ll be nice and secure, and you’ll have your partner tied down in seconds. The straps are 60 inches in length and so can be fitted to most beds.
With this set, you also get four cuffs, four restraining straps, and the strap that fits under the bed.
What I like best about this system is that it’s discreet—simply remove it when you’re done, and no traces remain.
High-Quality BDSM Bed Restraints for Sex Play
This is a deluxe set. The straps attach to chains and furry cuffs—trust me, these restraints are built to last a long time. And the price is not all that bad either. Again, here you can just slip the connector strap under the mattress to convert any bedroom into a pleasure room.
The restraints are adjustable and will fit all body sizes and shapes.
Adam & Eve Scarlet Couture
This set is another one that’s simple to set up. Simply slide the straps under the mattress to secure them. What I like about the Adam & Eve is that it has quick-release clips, making it simple to unclip the cuffs easily.
The cuffs are also lightly padded for extra comfort and longer enjoyment.
When You Want to Up the Kinkiness Factor
The whole idea of trying bondage is to explore new experiences. It’s a lot of fun, but at some point, you’ll want to go beyond the standard cuffs and couches. So, when you’re ready to experiment a little more, here are some more advanced options to try.
AngelDis Latex Costume Vacbed
This one is for more advanced players. It’s made entirely of natural latex, and it only takes a few minutes to assemble the frame and stretch the bag out over it. One of you climbs into the bag, and the other uses a vacuum cleaner to suck the air out.
The sensation is quite unmatched. There are different sizes when it comes to this option, so choose the right model for your body size.
Kennel Adjustable Puppy Cage with Padded Board
This is a horizontal cage, but it’s fully adjustable, and you can opt to add extra positioning bars to the cage. These will help pin your partner down so that they can’t move a muscle. It’s pretty easy to put together and provides hours of fun.
This model doesn’t include restraints, but you can always add your own. The bottom of the cage has a padded headboard for extra comfort and can be retracted if your partner has been very naughty.
Doc Johnson Wet Works Flat Waterproof Queen Sheet
These sheets deserve a place in any halfway decent sex dungeon. They are waterproof, and ideal to use when things get very wet. If you’re keen on golden showers, but not so keen on cleaning up afterward, these are ideal.
It has heat-sealed seams for extra durability, and the material, surprisingly, breathes quite nicely and has a soft feel to it. When you’re done, just chuck it in the washer for easy cleanup.
Stuck and Stuffed Bondage Stockade with Dildo
This is a complete sex kit. It comes with a bar, four restraints, a collar, and mounted dildo. Strap your partner in – the bar can be extended to customize the device. Then have fun teasing them with the dildo—your partner will have no escape from the torturous pleasure.
The padded cuffs have locking brackets that keep them restrained, and there are several restraint points, making this unit customizable for all your play needs.
Hismith Premium Sex Machine
The Hissmith is a simple enough machine, but what I love about it is that it has a remote control with a 66-foot range. So, if you’re on your own, you can just get into position and pleasure yourself with ease, and if you have a partner with you, the remote can become a fun part of the play.
The dildo can be removed for easy cleaning when you’re done.
The sex machine is very sturdy and stable, and the action produced will send powerful waves of pleasure through your partner.
Some DIY Options
BDSM is a fun way to explore a new side of sex. There’s no question, though, that the money spent on these toys can add up fast, which might tempt you to create your own furniture. Here are some ideas to get you started:
- Look for fabric with a nice feel: Choose a nice piece of suede or velvet to create a soft and luxe feel. Go for leather for a more classic sex dungeon feel or choose rubber for easy cleanup and a touch of extra kink.
- Create your own restraints: Almost anything that can be tied can do double duty as a restraint. The only thing to watch out for is cutting off your partner’s circulation. Get creative – have you got a tie to use? Or what about a pair of cable ties?
- Create a bondage couch: If you’re handy with tools, build one from scratch. Alternatively, pad up a plain bench using high-density foam; you can even leave room for a sex toy if you’d like. Then cover it, and you’re done.
With DIY bondage equipment, I’m going to give a warning – doing so is at your own risk. I would steer clear of creating anything for penetration purposes unless you know what you’re doing. Do a lot of research before you start building your furniture to get it right and stay safe.
Things to Think About When Making a Purchase
What Material They Use
There are a lot of different options out there when it comes to the material that the furniture is made out of. Here are some things to ask yourself before making a commitment to buy anything:
- Will it be simple to clean?
- Is any part of it porous? That might make it more difficult to sterilize.
- What’s the texture like? Soft and comfortable is usually a safe option to go with.
- Does your furniture come with sex toys? If so, are they detachable? If they’re not, it’ll be harder to clean them. It’s also best to choose toys made out of silicone. They’re easier to clean and sterilize.
- What can you add? Are there places to fit in extra restraints, for example? If so, how well have these been made? Are they going to last?
- Storage: Before you buy, think about where you’re going to store the items. Consider furniture with incorporated storage space, or opt for smaller items if space is an issue.
- Are there warranties? Make sure that you understand the terms of returns and warranties that are offered. You’re paying a fair amount of money, so you should get some kind of guarantee.
Some Safety Considerations
Create a Safe Word
You must create a safe word to use with your partner. Hopefully, you won’t need to use it, but it’s necessary to have one. This word—or gesture, if one partner is gagged—should be simple. For example, the idea of using “red” for stop and “green” for go.
Never Participate When You’re Under the Influence
If your senses are dulled, you won’t feel the full range of sensations. More importantly, though, if something goes wrong, you may not be able to react fast enough, and your judgment will be impaired. It’s best if both parties are sober during play.
Communication is Key
You have to be able to have an honest conversation with your partner beforehand. How far are both of you willing to go? What do you want to try? What’s completely off the menu? You don’t want to have a fun experience spoiled because your partner inadvertently does something you don’t like.
It sounds a little crazy, especially if you’re the dominant one, but you have to think of your partner. How are they enjoying the experience? If they’re not, it’s time to stop. You’ll also need to be more considerate of your partner’s ideas—start by being a bit more open-minded.
It’s also good practice to ensure that you stick to a partner who’s considerate of you. You both need to be able to trust each other fully here. You need to know that they’ll be willing to slow things down if necessary or be patient if you’re taking a while to get into the swing of things.
I could stand here going on about how much fun BDSM is—but you might get there and find that it’s not for you. I’d suggest going in with realistic expectations. Start slowly and progress in areas that you enjoy. It could take a while for you to get the hang of things.
Learn More About the Tools
Education is an important safety aspect. If you hit someone too hard in the wrong place, for example, you could do some serious damage. It’s also important to know what your gear can or can’t do, and it’s essential to learn the proper cleaning and care procedures.
Being curious here can also lead to a lot more fun in the bedroom. Research the topic more thoroughly to see what else is out there. You might even want to consider joining a club or online forum to learn more. By talking to more experienced players, you’ll get important tips on how to enhance the experience going forward—you might even meet a few adventurous players to practice with.
Aftercare is Important
BDSM is a game, but it can get intense. While your partner might be physically turned on during the fun, after playtime, they might feel a little sore. They could also feel vulnerable emotionally. Incorporate an aftercare routine into your play sessions. This could be as simple as a cuddle and a cup of coffee, or a warm shower. Both of you will benefit from this session of added closeness. It’ll make the next session even more special.
BDSM play is fun and exciting thanks to the wide range of experiences and equipment that you can try out. You don’t have to convert your basement to a sex dungeon on day one. In fact, I don’t recommend doing that right off the bat.
Experiment a little with your partner with some vanilla options, like using a blindfold or restraints. Communicate about how the sessions felt, and you can both decide what the next step is from there.
It’s important for this to be a fully consensual experience if both of you are to enjoy it. That’s why it’s never a good idea to try and bully your partner into something they’re not ready for. By the same token, you also have a right to enjoy the experience. So, if you’re not comfortable with something, say so. If you’d like to up the intensity, discuss it with your partner.
Incorporating furniture can help to enhance the experience even more—so don’t be shy. Do your research and see what else is out there. I’ve given you some ideas to start with, but I’ve only scratched the surface. That’s part of what makes BDSM so exciting – there’s always more to explore. What are you waiting for? Those restraints are not going to tie themselves. Get in there and have some fun!
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