When it comes to sex, being well-lubricated is going to make all the difference. As long as your partner is reasonably wet, thrusting in and out is going to be easier. Thorough lubrication is essential, or penetration becomes a lot more difficult.
According to nature’s design, when a woman is aroused, her vaginal walls secrete lubricants. This is to make it easier for penetration to take place. In reality, though, not all women produce the same amount of these lubricating liquids.
This is especially the case for a woman who is a little older, or for those who aren’t as aroused. You can have sex without this lubrication, but it’s going to be unpleasant for both of you. And for those of you that like a little back door action, anal sex also requires lubrication. That’s where a personal lubricant can come in very handy.
Of course, if you’re using a sex doll, you’ll have to use lubes. The dolls have no natural ability to produce their own. Using a lubricant is essential here to more closely replicate the natural feeling of sex.
Our Top Choices in Lubes
With these lubes, we’ve stuck to products that can be used with sex dolls as well. Generally speaking, you’ll want to use only water-based creams or gels, because these won’t interact with the skin of the doll and cause issues.
If you’re having sex with a real-life partner, these will also serve well—because if they don’t interact with the doll’s skin, they won’t interfere with the integrity of a condom.
Different Types of Lubes
You pretty much have three types of lubricants to choose from on the market today. Let’s look at these:
Water-based
Water-based is probably the safest choice out of all three options. It’s not going to react to the rubber in condoms, and it’s easy to use. With a sex-doll, it’s ideal because it can easily be washed off. It’s not going to cling to or stain the doll as an oil-based type might.
Oil-based
These are also pretty easy to find. The advantage is that they are a lot better at reducing friction. You’ll find it a smoother experience and also need to use less to get good results. The downside is, well, they’re oily.
They can stain your bed linens, and tend to messy. They’re more difficult to clean off your skin, and it’s even more difficult to clean them off your doll. For this reason alone, we don’t recommend using them with your doll.
Silicone-based
Silicone-based products are newer but also commonly found. They’ve got a nice texture and are touted as hypoallergenic. That said, not everyone reacts well to them. Those with more sensitive skin might find that the silicone causes itching and irritation.
We’d recommend taking it slowly if you’re going to try one of these. It’s also worth noting that these products are not recommended for use with silicone products, and it’s not a good idea to use these particular products with your sex doll. They’ll cause silicone skin to degrade faster.
What Products to Try
All of the products are simple enough to use. We recommend that you anoint your penis or toy with a decent layer. And when using a doll, it’s also not a bad idea to lightly coat the inside of its vagina or anus. Here are our picks for the top ten products to use.
ID-Glide Sex Lube
This highly popular product is the top favorite of many users. It’s widely considered one of the best available today. ID-Glide is water-based and has a silky, smooth feel. It offers a similar feeling to “real” sex and makes penetration easy.
It’s unscented and will last throughout the encounter; the absence of scent makes it particularly suited to use with a sex doll. Be warned, though—you’ll pay more than you would for other options, but it will last you a long time.
Sliquid H2O Original Glycerin & Paraben-Free Lubricant
Again, this is a water-based lube. The glycerin in the formula assists with the lubrication and is also moisturizing. This product has fewer chemicals in it, and it’s been designed for those with sensitive skin.
This is truly hypoallergenic and comes in as one of the top options that we’re reviewing today.
Paloqueth Water-Based Lubricant
This is a good option if you also like anal sex. It feels natural and helps you glide in and out easily. This is also a good option if you just need to rub one out quickly. It’s water-based and lasts for quite a while.
Astroglide
Astroglide is really smooth, silky, and leaves no residue. It works really well for sex with dolls, but people with more sensitive skin should avoid it, as it might cause irritation.
Slippery Stuff Gel
Do you want a product that’s a little more substantial? Then you’ll love this gel. It’s pretty smooth to put on and feels great. It’s also not as likely to cause irritation for those with sensitive skin. The top selling point? It’s reasonably priced.
Shibari Premium Personal Lubricant
This is one that you’ll either love or hate. It tends to get a little sticky, though, so if that’s going to freak you out, look for something else instead. I have to say that this product does feel awesome during sex. Note, however, that it will need to be reapplied a little more often than others on the market.
System JO H2O Water-Based Lubricant
This is another highly popular option. It works well and will only need to be applied once throughout. It’s also reasonably priced, so you don’t have to break the bank to get it.
K-Y Jelly Personal Lubricant
This is one of the best-known products on the market, and it’s been a top performer for many years. It goes on smooth, lasts well, and provides ample lubrication. It’s also water-based. The downside is that it tends to be a little on the runny side, but don’t worry—that doesn’t affect the performance.
Passion Lubes Water-Based Lubricant
One bottle could last you up to a year, even if you use it every day. It’s one of the best-priced options and delivers a decent performance. It’s easy to afford and easy to get.
Cleanstream Relax Desensitizing Lube
This has been designed for anal sex in particular. It’s a lube that was made for those who haven’t had much experience with anal sex. It is silky smooth and works really well. It helps to deaden the area a little to make your first experience more pleasant.
Final Notes
Even for women who naturally produce enough lube, it’s a good idea to experiment. It can help to make sex go a lot more smoothly throughout. We do recommend trying different products to see which options work best for you.
While they’re all basically designed to do the same things, the ingredients differ. You might adversely react to one and not another. If you or your partner feel any irritation or itchiness, it’s best to stop using it straight away and switch to something else.
Overall, once you’ve found the right lube, it opens the door to a lot more pleasure. If you’re using sex toys, you’ll need lube to make the experience more realistic and enjoyable.
Just remember the main rule – water-based is always better because it’s the least reactive.
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